Some cultures have an oral tradition for passing on their history to future generations - my mom must be from one of those people groups. As far back as I can remember, I have known about Wisconsin through the stories or short comments she made as I was growing up. As I drove recently from the Milwaukee Mitchell Field airport to visit my Uncle Gordon while on the way to a meeting in Madison, the GPS map and road signs bore familiar names: Calumet County, Green Bay, De Pere, Chilton, New Holstein, Brillion, Chilton, Potter, Oshkosh, and Lake Winnebago - a body of water I knew of before there were recreational vehicles. That these names are familiar is somewhat remarkable, because even when taking the shortest driving route, it is still 2,183 miles from my home in Visalia to these places, and my relatives and their lives - etched in my mind because my mom stayed in touch - letters, phone, and occasional visits and returned visits.
Her Wisconsin is the Wisconsin I picture in my mind. She was born in a white house, next to a red dairy barn with silos, near the village of Hilbert - the homestead is more than 150 years old.
She had three brothers - Uncle Earl who worked at the Brillion Steel Mill, Uncle Gordon, a World War II Veteran and the Hilbert Postmaster, her kid brother, Uncle Mike, an engineer at Allen-Bradley - and Earl's wife Aunt Rosie, and Mike's wife Aunt Maggie, but Gordon: a life-long bachelor. I remember Grandma and Grandpa on the farm when we visited before I was five; but the farm was sold in 1963, so when I next saw them in 1964, they lived in a house in town, near the village park where the Fourth of July Celebration was held. When my mom and we four kids came through the door, a polka dance show was on the television. Mom's cousin Lucille, always referred to as "Cousin Lucille", was married to Sam, who worked for American Can. They lived in the first twin cities I knew, Neenah and Menasha, until they moved to Connecticut - they were my God Parents. That was the year of the Summer Olympics in Tokyo, when I first became aware of large eastern European women who could throw the shot put great distances; Sam commented so, and I remember it to this day. All of this may have not included me, if not for certain people in irregular orbits having their paths unpredictably cross - like country roads the connect farms and towns and the people that live there. If not for my grand mother's sister being married to a man whose sister was my dad's mom, and they having another brother who got his wife-to-be pregnant before they were married, that family would not have left Wisconsin and moved to California; and my mom would have had no reason to visit her aunt in Visalia where her aunt's husband's sister lived half of a mile north on another farm and married to a man who was to be my paternal grandfather; and would not have met their son who would chase after my mom all the way back to Wisconsin - 2,183 miles; and eventually marry my mom and which resulted is me - one of three brothers with a sister - a West Coast bookend family the mirror of my mom's Midwest family one generation earlier with the same sibling compliment that is carried forward to the present with my wife's and my clutch: three boys and a girl.
St. Mary's Cemetery, south of the village, on the highway from Chilton, the place I stop to look at first, the two times I have returned in the last 15 years, like bookends on time - later in midlife, complimenting two times earlier when I first visited as a little one. If not for highway construction detours that kept me from driving straight west to see Lake Winnebago, I would not have seen the new Wisconsinians - tall white sentinels that tower over the silos surrounded by pastures empty of black and white cows. Against the tall blue sky capped with thunderheads, on the way to Fon du Lac, near the south end of Lake Winnebago, stand new giant engines of industry, whipped by rivers of wind carried over the neighboring bluffs - so quiet and different than roaring rivers of air that stoked the iron smelting furnaces of the Fox River Valley in years gone by, as are the long-gone mill workers, like my Uncle Earl.
These giants dominate the rolling hills and red barn landscape, dwarfing the once tall silos, like something machine out of a science fiction short story - likely also to be gone sometime in the future, when even long memories in comparative times are relatively short, sneaking up and passing us when no one expects anything to be different. When these giants are no longer useful, future inhabitants who remember them will either choose to go with the flow, or be drug forward kicking and screaming into the times future - people displaced by events they fail to see or realize, events over which they have no control.----------------------------------------------------------------------------------
I was struck by the presence of wind generators that seemed so out-of-place across the Wisconsin landscape near Fon du Lac. I pulled over along the back roads I took for the highway detours on my way to Madison.
They reached the canal. It was long and straight and cool and wet and reflective in the night."I've always wanted to see a Martian," said Michael. "Where are they, Dad? You promised."
"There they are, said Dad, and he shifted Michael on his shoulder and pointed straight down.
The Martians were there. Timothy began to shiver.
The Martians were there - in the canal - reflected in the water. Timothy and Michael and Robert and Mom and Dad. The Martians stared back up at them for a long, long silent time from the rippling water....
The Martian Chronicles, Ray Bradbury, 1948
While on vacation in Oregon, I found a hardback copy of the book at the Book Bin used book store in Corvallis. My youngest son and I had made it a quest: looking in a bookstore at the Minneapolis-St. Paul airport, and Border's Bookstore in Corvallis. I enjoyed each chapter, and remembered most all of them, but may one or two.
(1) It wasn't until I had to start writing for a living - first my Ph.D. dissertation, then publications that went to refereed journals, and now, on a Program Staff that at times has to write more than there is time to think - that I really had to sharpen my composition skills. I don't think I can describe how I know how to write, I just do from the repetition of it. Penmanship and spelling are different issues - I am grateful for the spell checker in Microsoft Word.
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